Marriage

Today, i found someone who shares a similar concept that i have about maturity and spoilt percentage. Haha...

She was telling me, "Go ahead and tell that person who always say that you are spoilt that its because you are very confortable with him thats y you are spoilt, if not from my point of view, i dont see you being spoilt."

True, its only in front of a person whom you are very comfortable with, in love with, like alot and /or close to that you will share your little immature behaviour(s) and act cute pattern(s) and drama mama actions.

My friend is happily married to this really cute and popular guy. She told me today with a little embarassment but sweet happiness that her husband calls her a "Dumb Blonde", then she replied to him, " Well you like a Dumb Blonde rite?" *Act cute tone and bunny smile* Hahaha... What can the husband say but yes and laugh at her.

Well, I have a guy friend who said to me once, "You so immature, who will marry you? Grow up first bah... maybe when you are older someone might consider marrying you"

I was about to believe what he said til today. Getting married is not about being matured first, because ITS MARRIAGE that gives you the next level of maturity. That kinda maturity to merge yourself as a person into someone else life which is different from yours. Of course if you miss this level of maturity, you will most probably proceed to the one that you think you dont need a man, by then you will most probably be left on the shelves FOR GOOD.

Personally, I feel that marriage gives you (mainly refering to ladies lah)
1) Sense of security
This is something that "The Men Dont Get It". Ladies need alot of sense of security. Even though rate of divorce is quite high but at least at that point of time, or period of time, we feel secure; knowing that there is someone there whom we can turn to when we are need someone to turn to (make sense rite?). Yah, I know, we have friends, but ASK yourself,TRUTHFULLY, there is a difference isnt it?

(for the men too) This Sense of security acts as a base, a kinda foundation that two person build. Its something that both the person can fall back on if eveything else fails. Think about this, the happiest time of your life is on the day when you marry someone you love, the silliest time is on that day when you have to act like a monkey before to see your bride, the most expensive time is on the day when you have to book hotel and restaurant, the most popular time is on the day when you are the lime light for the whole day, YOU LOOKING YOUR BEST is on that very day too.... If, at anytime of your life, you feel that you are useless, worthless, ugly, cannot make it, look back at that day, you have achieved alot in a day.

2) An additional privilege to attain our goal as a Taitai
Frankly, who dont wanna be a Taitai. Once again, "The Men Dont Get It", nowadays taitai is no longer the type that stays at home to play majong 24-7. Taitai still works but not the typre that requires 10000000% of commitment. Like my friend mentioned above, she is a part time Taitai and part time instructor. Got class go teach, no class go shopping. Modern Ladies no longer want to stay at home do nothing (jo boh lan), they love running around and spending their own money. They just need a sense of Security that they will be fed by their hubby. Simple? Well, of course im like that lah, I have friends who only want to spent the money their hubbies bring home lah. SO OPEN YOUR EYES and LOOK properly!

Well, of course, if you are like me, who is meant to be left on the shelves for good, nothing much you can do yah? Then again, No one will be as suay as me. YOu will have good fortune. :)

You are not alone

You know you are not alone. You will always have me here for you.

The reason why we met, is so as to have each other's support through bad times. I may not be the one for you but, you know thats the reason why we became fast friends. Our relationship is that pure and innocent, only we know y.

Dun leave me like they left you. You know i will never leave you alone and I want to walk you through your good times and bad, furthermore how bad can things be if we walk it through together and good things will only get better because we share.

Talk to me, dun assume coz it makes an ASS outta yoU n ME.

No more Me to You

Im not sure why i love you so... but i just do. It doesnt matter anymore whether the world knows of it or not or whether you know of it or not; I just want my memory and love space in my heart to have you.

At times im heart broken from all rejections i recieve; i smile it through, sad from all the unwanted things you said; i laugh it through, hurt by some of the things that you do and dont do; i drama it through, because in my memory, these will be erased and replaced by all the happy memories (whatever is left of them) you gave me.

I promise myself and those who love me that i shall not show you I love you. No more kisses from me to you, no more hugs from me to you, no more request from me to you, no more drama from me to you, no more everything from me to you, unless you want them, ask for them, gave them from YOU to ME.

Things are not what they seem to b

No matter how beautiful a picture is painted, in the eyes of the painter and the viewer is definitely different.

Viewer: What a beautiful piece of art. It must have been a great experience to see it with one's own eyes.

Painter: I just want the world to see the beauty of my art work but deep down inside the actually beauty was exaggerated to give my viewers the impression that it is indeed beautiful.

Thus, no matter how happy and loved i said i am. I may not be. You will need to feel it to know it.