Embracing Life again :)

I guess embracing life had been difficult for a period in my life as it was just so frustrating trying to embrace it while others try their best to destroy it.. Thank god most of these people are gone... Time to embrace life again! :)

Sunday, July 11, 2004

Silly things that happens when you are blindly in "love" like opening a joint-account

Overheard a conversation yesterday, when my sister was talking to her "LATEST" boyfriend.

Sis: need how much?
*listening*
Sis: 500 huh.. i think can.. i still got 100 plus with mum
*listening again*
Sis: but we going to use the money for your trip huh?
*listening listening*
Sis: when can open? how's the procedure?

Im too lazy to carry on. Well, as you can see, the guy is out to cheat her money, (but im not doin anything about it, she should learn, as long as not with my money ;p) yet she willingly want to open an account with him. From what I know so far, she thought the guy is going to marry her as they have ordered rings. *duh*

Actually, I have always believed that when in a relationship, we have to:

- open joint account
- talk about marriage
- buy rings
- wear the same clothes at times
- do the same things
- learn from each other
- share friends
- blah blah blah..

Things that i do not believe in NOW:

- open joint account
- talk about marriage

What changed my mind?

I hear from a friend that two close friends of ours who happened to be together, ready to talk about marriage, opened a joint account, HAPPENED to break up, FOUGHT (i mean real fight) with each other over the spliting of the money in the account. haha... (oppsss...) silly right? So never will I open a joint account with someone, UNLESS i know this person actually puts in a particular amount EVERY MONTH and NEVER use the money in the account. Then mayb I'll consider, or if he is my "lawful" hubby.

Why not talk about marriage? I feel that, unless you are serious about it, if not, DO NOT GIVE ME HOPE!!! Cause, frankly, which girl on earth won't want to be married? Well, then again, sometimes, its good to hear sentences like " Wo Men Dou Lao Fu Lao Qi le" as in " we have been husband and wife for so long". Or "you my lovely wifey mah" Its kinda lovey dovey. ;p

Why do I STILL believe in buying rings? Its the lovey dovey thingy (again?), but of cause to some people out there, they feel that its a kind of promise that " i will marry you dear" haha.. I guess, if these people really recieve or gives a ring, woah, it means something alright?
For me, I just wanna feel attached. At times, look at the ring and give the sheepishly in love smile. haha.. Silly me..

Wear Same clothes? Haha... just for fun lor.. (KL is dying when he sees this, then if im around, he will do the usual: Must we? hai yah... if you want to, ok lor *ultra kana sabo and forced-to-do-sth-he-hates look*)haha.. He is sooooooo CUTE!! Well, i have to admit, its abit silly, but don't we all do silly things when we are in love?

What are the silly things that you do? Care to share? :) Use the comments link :)

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