Special Dedication

Havent been updating my blog regularly, i wonder if my fans miss mi.. haha... Found out on sunday that someone actually enjoys my blog. So happy to hear that. Thanz!! (Feeling like some Aunt Agony talking about Teenage column) Sadly though, i said something that kinda evoked his hidden emotion. Felt so bad about it. Anyway, this post is specially dedication to him. (You noe who you r ;p)

Let's see, today, we will touch on a topic that is kinda common around us. {Trusted friends and Loved Ones}.

If you realized, i used past tense for "trust" and "love". Reason behind this is simple. These people are history.

I guess, in one's life, one will come across friends whom one trusts. If these friends become trusted, then, haha... they are no longer trust NOW. Frankly, ask yourself honestly, what do you do if someone breached your trust. Hate them? Trust no one else anymore? Still love them?

What if that someone is your best friend or at least you THOUGHT that he was?

Final question, will he still be a friend of yours?

In cases like this, this friend will be demoted from a best friend to a friend. No longer will i tell him scerets, feelings, emotions. All he gets to know is my daily routines at most.

Now you ask me, " what about loved ones?"

The sad part is that these people are no longer loved by you. Well, there are alot of hidden factors behind why these people are no longer loved by you. And i guess, alot is based on trust too.

Sleep on this: If someone you love dearly cheats on you, how would your reaction be if you found out? Will you rather be the first to know or the last?

Unfortunately, you will happen to always be the last to know. And if you happen to be the last to know, look on the bright side (hard.. i know, but try), he or she still care, cause he or she didnt want to hurt you see... They are trying to find the best method, place, time and venue and probably even fengshui to break the news to you. (yes, this applies even when you see him or her cheats on you first)

Thinking back, most of you will feel sad or even disappointed that these people exist, and they have been closed to you once upon a time. Look at it this way, God (Im a free thinker, and do NOT try to "church" me, mind you) created these people for a purpose, and that is to teach you, to let you learn about the ugly side of human. BUT, bear this teaching in mind: "Hate the action. NOT the person." This is something i learn from my Kee Kee. :"p

I hope i can heal the damage that i have done to my friend. BTW, my friend, let mi noe you Blog Addy yah? :)