Little Green Patch

I think this is one of my favourite application in facebook... eveyday, i will go in and send plants to pple.. haahaa.. lame.. but at least its not like some of the other application where you have to give out your info to earn some kind of points to feed your pet n stuff, yet the amount you earn is NEVER enuff to feed your pet bla bla bla...  oh btw, the link dun seem to work, Just ignore it, pic cute can liao.. ;p

My SMS reply to Desmond

After he called and tell me all the sad stories, I only manage to go and shower after 2am! Using the excuse that i have another emergency call (Which i asked thomas to call me) then i got let off the hook...

The best part, he called again at 2.20 AM and 3.15 AM!!! Well, I think my hp drop into the toilet bowl too.. I went to slp, in silent...

I woke up on sunday morning at 11am to see the SMS from him:

"Mei,did you tok to huiying juz now? coz she told me that she will call me but til now no news from her,nbr pick up hp oso.m worried abt her..."

This Sms was sent at 3.00AM!

Hello, man.. you wanna call me and tok to me then you dun be afraid that i will tell you off WHICH I DID NOT!!! DID YOU FUCKING LOOK AT YOUR WATCH WHEN YOU ARE CALLING PPLE!!! ITS WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE HOURS! I didnt know you are on New York timing... So, a-almost-pissed-off-me SMS him.

"It was 2.30am afer i showered. Out of respect for her beauty slp, i do not call my frds after 12am n b4 12pm esp on a sunday. If she dun wana tok to you,leave it. Its no longer abt u caring or nt for her. Its abt her living her life n making decisions n mistakes n learnin. If she dun do dat, she might as well nt b alive,u might as well take over her life. When she no longer hav feelin 4 u as she put , all ur worrying n caring is juz simply annoying n irritatin, leave her alone. (end of part 1)

(part 2) If you really want to, b there when needed, disappear when unwanted, if tis is unfair to u, then u noe dat u need to move on, becoz only frds can achieve e above, since u cant do wat both ur agreement request which is to b frds, then no pt toking. Read e 2 msgs 1 more time, try to digest. No pt callin anyone to tok to, u need to tok to urself. Tink of ur priorty, $ or woman. There is only 1 choice, there is no way u r gonna make 2 ends meet, then tink abt gettin more out of ur choice n How?"

I is type until SMS become MMS becoz too long...

I know that you confused, lost, angry, hurt... There is a limit to how many sad stories calls you can make. If you think that by irritating us, we will not go out with her anymore and she can lonely and ask you back.. YOu are thinking too much.. Or you hope that we can help you put in good words, you are so wrong.. DIY, actually.. dun.. just dun do anything...

I am not irritated by calls from him, seriously, im not. But, probably becox he is not my gang of friends that i have lesser patience... or mayb, I can feel that huiying had had enough... im just passing the feelin on...

Desmond Called... Life story...

I believe my gals have been receiving numerous calls from this particular man who is simply heart broken and cant let go. 

Well, like you, I have received a call from him, at 12 FUCKING AM in the morning (When its dark.. very dark, becoz my eyes were about to close in front of the TV). He kept toking.. toking..toking.. repeating.. repeating.. repeating... Ok, Im not being insensitive or whatsoever, I understand that it hurts, it hurts alot becoz you cant let go, but what im saying today is this, You cant let go fine, why make life difficult for others, not us, but the one you cant let go. Cant you tell that it is so difficult

1. for her to explain to her friends y you kept calling even though we have heard it for the millionth time
2. for her to think of ways to avoid your calls like leaving her HP in the car, switching it silent, nearing flushing it down the toilet...
3. for her to keep quarrelling with her friends becoz to avoid you she left her HP silent and her friends cant get her too
4. for her to keep apologising to her parents becoz you fucking call HER HOUSE PHONE in the middle of the nite
5. for her to have to hang up her house phone landline so that you cant reach, surprisingly her WHOLE fucking family has to be kept out of contact from the world too.. WOAH!!!
6. for her to enjoy her day becoz you threaten that in 4 hours time, it is her last chance to say yes or no or else you will be a birthday present for another gal, which part of NO do you not understand??
7. for her to go out with other people as she kept answering your calls becoz you are worried that Singapore public transport stops at 10pm, there are no such thing as cabs, families are not people who will take care of her, friends who drove her out has no car, THUS as long as she is not with you, she CANT get home.
8. for her to live her life make decisions becoz you are so afraid that if she use her brain, it will burst, if she make the wrong decision, she will die on the spot, YES, she did say she cant live without you, AS A FRIEND to help with decision analysis, not making; most importantly AS A FRIEND!!! 

Now, gals.. Dun laugh yet, after scolding the guy, now time to scold the gal... Before that, let me warn you that I AM BIASE!

Our dear love, you know that we love you. We understand totally that it is damn difficult to say no and stand by that decision and not be moved when your partner threaten suicide.. Wait, yours didnt, someone else's did. Anyways, yours threaten with stuff too... If you decided, just SMS all of us so that we will not ans his calls (which you did, well done). I understand that he might have depression, but always remember, a selfish person will not die for you.. Even if he did, its never your fault, god will punish him for not loving his body and life. 

Now, just remember that as long as you are happy, we will stand by your side. Im not sure about the rest of them, but I definitely will not look you down even if your actual reason for leaving him is becoz you have a change of heart. I believe that if you can have a change of heart, it simply means that at THAT POINT OF TIME, you know deep down you do not love him as much as you thought you did. Well, doesnt mean you dun love him anymore, but just simply, he is not the one for you. Then again, you must note that the one that you are jumping onto might not THE ONE either but he is just your life jacket then. If it works out, good for you, if it doesnt, move on.. Get a Life! YOu are 40 years old and dying a spinster, you are barely 25, long way ahead man...